When I was pregnant, a friend of mine said, "The best complement that I can be given as a parent is that my child is empathetic." Her statement hit me like a lightening bolt because someone who is empathetic is a good friend, has a charitable heart and a good steward of this world. Who wouldn't want to be called empathetic or better yet have their child exhibit that trait? I loved her statement and have carried it in my heart since then.
Flash forward five and three quarter years (as my daughter would say). Last Tuesday started out great! It was my turn to pick up from school four of the cutest kindergarteners in the whole world, bring them back to our house to play for an hour and then take them to dance class. Right before I was walking out the door to get my ladies, I got an email from the school councilor saying that my daughter had been chosen to be knighted for exhibiting the virtue of tolerance. There was going to be a school assembly, and I needed to RSVP. I had no idea what that meant, but I quickly responded that we would be there and ran out the door.
An emergency trip to the dentist, consultation with the pediatrician, chocolate/vanilla swirl ice cream and trip to the toy store later, she was good as new minus two teeth, of course. What a day it had been!
4 Way Test of the things we think, say or do
1. Is it the TRUTH?
2. Is it FAIR to all concerned?
3. Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS?
4. Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?
Teachers and the school councilor then reinforce the 4 Way Test by using it in everyday situations in the classroom or the playground, etc.
So, my daughter was chosen by her teacher to be Knighted. Her grandparents, my husband and I were also honored onstage because the program teaches that the 4 Way Test must begin at home. Her teacher also read why she chose her to be Knighted. Here's what she said, "From the beginning of school, she has demonstrated the characteristics of tolerance in many different ways. She has been very kind, loyal and accepting towards all of her peers. She has shown respect and patience in the classroom, playground and other school settings. With the many choices we are faced with throughout the day, she is always thinking about the 4 Way Test and always makes the right choices."
I thought my proudest moment in my life was getting my Aggie Ring. Nope! It's seeing my daughter recognized for her beautiful heart.
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
I had this great idea to help promote BarkingWife.com by adding our name to the back window on my car. But I got more than what I expected. I never know what is going to happen now when I’m driving around, minding my own business, trying to get too many errands done in not enough time.
The first time it happened, I didn’t make the connection. I had just had the back window done. I was flying down the highway and a car pulled up next to me and was pacing me at 65 (or 70-ish) miles per hour. Now, the last time this happened to me was about 5 years ago. And I ended up having to call the police because a crazy man in a white van held up a center fold spread of some nasty pornographic magazine to show me. That still creeps me out. But anyway, back to my story … a lady was driving and honked and honked and when I looked over at her she gave me a thumbs with a big bright smile. I thought, “ That’s kind of strange”. But then I quickly figured it out. She liked the BarkingWife name or idea or maybe she was already using our www.BarkingWife.com service. It was a great feeling; having a random person honk and smile at me. Now this happens all the time to me as I’m driving around the city.
On the other hand, one day I was in drive through line at Chic-fil-A and a man walking to his car said to me, “I’m not gonna tell my wife about BarkingWife cause she barks enough at me already." However, most of the time I get those knowing smiles from men and a chuckle when they see my back window.
So now I want “Honk if You’re a BarkingWife.com” bumper stickers to give away so you and everyone else can feel the love too!
Monday, October 17, 2011
Where has the time gone? Just when I thought that I had everything under control and each child where they needed to be and when they needed to be there and with the right shoes on that fit the activity that I was taking them too, life threw me a curve ball. And instead of swinging at it and hitting a home run, I think it hit me in the head and I’m just now coming to again. The good news is that things are starting to settle back down in my life and I’m able to finally get back into my usual BarkingWife.com work routine. I really missed writing for our blog. It feels great to be back. I missed ya’ll!
Today is my awesome business partner’s birthday! Happy Birthday Carolanne. I love working with you. You are so creative and smart and witty and intuitive and I could go on and on and on! I hope you party like a rock star today! I bet you laughed when you got the BarkingWife birthday greeting that I sent to your phone. J Cheers to you on this special day!